Destruction doesn't have to be a purely negative force, beloved. Forests burn all the time and then spring back to life, healthier and stronger than before. Many myths speak of heroes and countries brought to their knees by destructive forces only to rise again with enough skill to flourish when they could not before. Destruction can be an end, but it is also a beginning. While you lead others to that beginning, do not forget to find it for yourself as well even if that beginning is no more than finally finding a place where you can rest.